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Saturday, April 30, 2011

Politics

I’ve always been interested in politics.  It was great to live near DC where it all happens.  I really love it all.  I think I like it even more here.  We just got notice that Maddie’s school will be closed on Monday, May 9.  Singapore is holding their general elections on Saturday the 7th and in order to increase voter participation they make it mandatory that companies give a day off to their employees.  In my reasoning I think it’s so they can spend the day before researching and make a good choice when they cast their ballot.  Notice however that Maddie’s teachers have the day off two days after the election.  Oh well.

 

I forwarded the email from her school to Brian.  He replied back that he also gets the day off but in the form of a vacation day he can take any day in the year.  Nice.  I love politics!

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Mind Games

On our trip to Bintan this week I found myself at the end of the day lying on my bed watching nothing important. I was planning what I needed to do when I got home. Top of my list was to run to Wal-mart on Roberts Road to pick up some stuff. I had some subconscious recollection that it had been a long time since I had stocked up on things.

Later the same night I flipped through the news which showed the political candidates running for office in Singapore. They were canvasing and talking with people in the markets and hawker stalls. For just a second I thought how it had been fun to see people live like that and now we head home the next afternoon. Then it hit me. That is my life now. Hawker stands on every corner. No Wal-mart to be found.

Isn't it odd that the mind can play tricks on us? I really did think I was heading back to Fairfax, Virginia today. I'm not sad exactly. The Hyatt family arrived last week. That will be fun for us and we are having fun in our new life. We had Easter dinner at our house with Shon and Juli's family and the Hyatts. It was a fun and rowdy dinner party for 20. After dinner Jana said she thought that I look deeply happy here. She's right. Now if my mind can just remember there is no longer Wal-mart in my vocabulary.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Indonesia Here We Come!

Bintan Indonesia is just a 50 minute ferry ride away from Singapore. My brother and his family are here for just over a week and he promised his kids three new stamps their passports. Singapore. Check. Indonesia. Check. We return Wednesday. Thursday or Friday will be a quick trip to malaysia.

I am so happy here. It's like were finally getting around to fulfilling the terms of our verbal prenup. I got married at the ripe old age of 20 but didn't want life to be "over" then. I wanted to finish my college degree (took 3 more years), work a bit as an engineer (worked 2 years), wait a while to have kids (waited 5 years) and travel the world (only just beginning this one after 12 years marriage). Traveling is much more complicated with 3 kids but still so totally worth the wait.

For the record, Brian had conditions too. We had to have out infamous finance date. It was that day that I was first introduced to the software program Quicken. We had to input every penny we would spend as a married couple each month to make sure we could afford to live as a married couple. It was that day I learned my true value. We ended up $84 in the red every month in our electronic mock up of our life. He proposed anyway and we're still happily in love twelve years, twelve moves and three kids later.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Quote of the Day

“Mom, I need to have squatting lessons.”


She tried the squat toilets at the office building we had dinner in.


“I had to take of my pants and underwear so they didn’t get wet.”

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Electric Bill

I almost croaked when I saw a $623 electric bill for 17 days of service. I try to open the windows as much as I can but sometimes I just need air con! It is hot and miserably humid 24-7 here.

On further inspection $300 was a new account and it includes water and trash all on one bill. Unfortunately that will probably just be the size of our bills here. I hear $600 is conservative. $700 is normal. $800 and up is liberal use of the air con. I've got to make sure we always turn them off when we leave a room for sure now!

Today

Laundry - I tried hanging my laundry to dry on my new drying rack.  Should save energy and money.  Went okay. Last night I sprayed Ben’s school uniform with stain removing stuff and left outside on the washing machine to let it work overnight.  This morning it went in the second load of the day.  When I picked it up it was positively yellow almost over the entire front and right sleeve but white on the left sleeve, collar and spot in the middle where I hadn’t sprayed.  Washed.  Still yellow.  Soaked in oxidizer for a few hours to whiten again.  Slight change.  Not sure what to do from here.  I guess bleach is my next step.

 

Bills – Got a bill from Fairfax County regarding our personal property tax for the cars we sold in January.  Brian had already notified them we sold them.  Tried to update their records using their online system again.  Did two different transactions, one for each vehicle.  Got the same confirmation number for each transaction.  Obviously it didn’t work right.  Again.  Decided I can still make the May 1 deadline if I mail today.  Set it aside on the kitchen table and went to get Ben from school.  Come back to address the form and it’s missing.  Search all over.  Give up.  An hour later I notice it on another table near the front door.  Or was it.  There was a part of the letter/bill.  Maddie had taken it to make me a Mother’s Day card while she made the ones for the grandmas.  Sweet thought.  Now I have no form to mail back.  Unless I can scavenge all the scraps from the recycle bin and tape it together.  That could actually be funny if I included it with a note about why my form was all chopped up.

 

Mother’s Day – thinking I would be amazingly organized I had Maddie decorate the cards for grandmas today.  She drew a picture of her in one card.  In the other one she says, “I drew some scribbles so they would think it was from Jake.  I don’t want them to think he didn’t love them so they will think he sent a card too now.”  Oh yeah, she totally denies it, but the Mother’s Day cards are a little chopped up too around the edges. “It wasn’t me, mom. I don’t know who cut up the edges of grandmas card.”  Lying has been a bit of a problem this last week in particular.

 

Cleaning – Yesterday I got a lot of work done on the unpacking again.  Everyone preforms better with deadlines it seems and mine is that my brother and his fun family arrive early Thursday morning to stay for a little more than a week.  We’re totally excited but I used that as an excuse to make myself get a few more boxes put away.  It worked.  Jakes room has one half full box left (just need a smaller box to compact things into then put it in the closet).  Ben and Maddie’s room is box free!!  Don’t open the wardrobes though.  Something is likely to come tumbling out.  I also cleared the wet kitchen almost completely.  Too bad the main living area is still a bit cluttered.  At least it’s all boxed and along the walls.

 

Exercise – Jake started begging first thing this morning for a walk.  “It walking time.  It walking time mom!” he said all morning long.  I held him off long enough to get Maddie on the bus before I had to cave.  We walked the hot and humid streets for over an hour.  He rode his bike and was completely happy.  When we got home he “helped” me sweep the leaves off the grass since we don’t own a rake.  Then we scooped them all into a bag and the front of the house looks lots better.

 

Humidity – Part of cleaning off the wet kitchen counter was tidying up the storage room and trying to make strategic decisions about what I could store in our outdoor storage.  We already have just the tiniest little bit of mold growing on my vinyl casserole dish carrying case.  Time to reorder and organize instead of just throwing stuff on shelves to get rid of the boxes.  I closed up the storage room and put a couple Thirsty Hippos in there.  I’ll check it in a week and do a mold check to see if that will cut it or not.  My honest guess is that it won’t work.  Not sure what good the space is if I can’t put anything in there at all.  I know, it’s the maid/helpers room.  I’m just not ready for that yet.

 

Dejunking – I can hardly wait for the community yard sale in just three weeks.  I’m trying so hard to be patient and wait to get things.  I have to borrow a vacuum each day the cleaning ladies come until I buy one.  Patience.  Patience.  I figure 20-30% of the neighborhood probably moves out each summer back to their country so we’re hoping to score lots of great things like a vacuum, toaster, iron, etc.  Because of the power difference those things won’t work for them when they leave.  One thing I didn’t expect was that in the unpacking, I’ve come up with quite a pile of things to get rid of myself.  I tried to pack strategically.  I did pretty well, but I’m still finding stuff we don’t need and it’s just taking up space in our house.  Precious space in the “no mold indoor zone.”  Okay, the “less likely to mold indoor zone.”  It’s just too humid here.

 

Time to walk the neighbor home, borrow a vacuum and make dinner.  Back to real life. Sigh.